This Is How Gay Marriage Affects Straight Men 91.54K Rich Juzwiak 04/07/14 08:32AM Filed to: Marriage Equality Marriage Equality Gays Iowa This letter to the editor in The Des Moines Register explains it all:It's been five years of same-sex marriage in Iowa. As a never-married male over the age of 40, everyone thought I was gay. Now I'm just a loser. What a relief!— Jim Zeller, Des Moines[H/T Slade Sohmer][Image via solkanar/Shutterstock]