Unconferences and open bars populate today's Valleywag Calendar. Girls (and boys), get your geek on.

DEEPEST SOHO, NEW YORK — I'm at the offices of TheLadders, a sort of Monster.com for six-figure-salary types, and this tech consultant won't stop bending my ear. "I just went to a Lunch 2.0 in the Valley last week," he says. TheLadders is throwing a Lunch 2.0 event, a sort of recruiting-fest and schmoozathon that's lurched its way from the Valley to New York City. How'd he like the first Lunch 2.0 in New York? "Oh, you know New York. Everyone's all hotty toddy." No, I don't know. A hot toddy, last I checked, is a mixed drink served hot. It's not an attitude. You want an attitude? Tell a bunch of New Yorkers they're hoity toity.

Tonight: LeWeb3 host and blogueur Loic Le Meur and blogger-cartoonist Hugh MacLoud host a dinner at Foreign Cinema in San Francisco's Mission District. Warning: The event may already be overbooked. [Eventbrite]