A Quinceañera at 25, How to Get a Polite Stranger Fired, and Other Questionable Advice Caity Weaver · 12/14/12 10:35AM Welcome to Thatz Not Okay, a regular column in which I school inquiring readers on what is and is not okay. Please send your questions to caity.weaver@gawker.com with the subject "Thatz Not Okay."