Carpooling with Machiavelli, Playing 'Chicken' with Strangers, and Other Questionable Advice Caity Weaver · 01/10/13 04:39PM Welcome to Thatz Not Okay, a regular column in which I school inquiring readers on what is and is not okay. Please send your questions to caity.weaver@gawker.com with the subject "Thatz Not Okay."