Thatz Not Okay: A Quilting Beef; Pile Driving Someone Else's Grandma Caity Weaver · 08/02/13 11:30AM Welcome to Thatz Not Okay, a regular column in which I school inquiring readers on what is and is not okay. Please send your questions (max: 200 words) to caity@gawker.com with the subject "Thatz Not Okay."