Thatz Not Okay: Lying to Looky-Loos; Giving Your Hubby the Summer Off Caity Weaver · 05/16/13 04:00PM Welcome to Thatz Not Okay, a regular column in which I school inquiring readers on what is and is not okay. Please send your questions (max: 200 words) to caity@gawker.com with the subject "Thatz Not Okay."