Laying Down the Law with Your Ugly Baby, Confessing to a Girl that You Are Her Stalker, and Other Questionable Advice Caity Weaver · 11/08/12 01:45PM Welcome to Thatz Not Okay, a regular column in which I school inquiring readers on what is and is not okay. Please send your questions to caity.weaver@gawker.com with the subject "Thatz Not Okay."