We'd only just begun to recover from the news that Lamas Family Acting Dynasty scion Shayne Lamas had ended her arranged marriage to British Bachelor guy—a decision followed by a downward spiral of public bum-flashings and belt-chewing for the young, single actress. Now comes news that yet another of the series's pairings—that of onetime gazebo rejectee turned manhungry shopping-spree winner DeAnna Pappas to snowboard instructor Jesse Csincsak—has come undone:

I really felt like I was going to spend the rest of my life with him. I thought he was my fairy-tale ending" DeAnna tells In Touch. "But after the show was over and we settled in to our normal lives, I slowly came to realize that we are two totally different people and it wasn't going to work out." But DeAnna, who's going to donate her engagement ring to charity, isn't totally turning her back on love. "I still believe in love," she says. "More than anything, I want to find someone I can spend the rest of my life with," she adds.

We're wondering what to believe anymore, as if ever we believed in someone's promise of "many years of whip creamy cheesecake" together, it was Jesse's heartfelt pledge to DeAnna following the final-rose distribution. Still, we're heartened Pappas has not yet "turned her back on love," and we're committed to joining her on her search for The One, as many reality shows as it takes.