Dear Paula DuPre,

Your husband Curtis Pesman has been spending a lot of time with one of his ex-girlfriends. After a bunch of flirtatious emails, he went out to Philly, and had dinner in her bedroom. We hear they had "a reconnection, a spark." Paula, we don't know if you remember his advice book "Your First Year Of Marriage," from way back in 1995, but we're pretty sure, just judging from its index, that this was stuff he would tell a bride to be worried about. Don't ask us how we found out this inside information! Oh, okay: It came from a very private journal he was keeping in the New York Times.

As Survivors, We Were Closer Than Lovers [NYT]